Languages

The language is leather. The language is surrender or dominance. The language may be fetish or protocol or bondage or pain. We have many languages and yet most of us are wanting the similar experiences with each other: love, pleasure, sustenance.

People in the BDSM lifestyle may think of themselves as being apart from vanilla relationships. We often speak and dress and behave differently, and yet it is only our language, not our spirit. Most people hope to love and be loved, hope for meaning and affection with trusted companions.